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How to Identify and Address Triangulation in Narcissism Recovery
If you’re in a relationship with a person with narcissistic traits, you’ve probably experienced triangulation. Because it’s a tool that’s grounded in power and control, it’s often used by people with narcissistic traits. Learn how to identify and address triangulation, and take back your power!
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Jul 285 min read


What You Need to Know about Baiting and Narcissism Recovery
Do you know a narcissist who pushes your buttons on purpose? Here's what you need to know about baiting and narcissism recovery to make it stop!
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May 267 min read


It’s All Your Fault! – Why People with Narcissistic Traits Blame You, and What You Can Do
Do you know a narcissist who blames you for things that are outside your control? Learn why they do it, and what you can do when they blame you!
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Apr 286 min read


Orange Flags in Dating and Narcissism Recovery
Learn what orange flags are in dating, and how you can use this knowledge to steer clear of dating a narcissist!
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Apr 78 min read


What To Do When a Person with Narcissistic Traits Says "I Forgot"
Do you know a narcissist who tells you "I forgot," and you find it infuriating? Learn how to deal with this common problem!
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Mar 318 min read


How Understanding Your Moving Toward Personality Helps in Narcissism Recovery
Do you find yourself drawn toward people with narcissistic traits? Discover whether your personality might be the reason why--and learn what
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Feb 107 min read


Boundaries, Gray Rock, and Narcissism Recovery
are you good at being a gray rock? Recently we talked about displacement , which along with denial and projection , make up the three...
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Dec 23, 20249 min read


Displacement and Narcissism Recovery
Why does your person with narcissistic traits hurt your feelings? Learn what displacement is, why it happens, and how to handle it!
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Dec 9, 20249 min read


Denial, Gaslighting, and Narcissism Recovery
Learn how to identify and stay calm when a narcissist lies or uses gaslighting or denial!
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Nov 25, 202410 min read


Projection and Narcissism Recovery
Are you in a relationship with a person with narcissistic traits? Learn how to stay calm and respond assertively when they use projection!
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Nov 11, 20247 min read


Dating and Red Flags in Narcissism Recovery, Part II
Are you dating after a relationship with a narcissistic partner? Uncover the red flags you need to be looking for as you date!
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Oct 28, 202411 min read


Red Flags in Dating and Narcissism Recovery, Part I
Ready to date, but afraid you'll miss the red flags associated with narcissism? Learn how to identify red flags, and date with confidence!
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Oct 21, 20247 min read


Replace Vague Pronouns, Enjoy Better Health!
Learn how replacing vague pronouns like it, this, and that can improve your mental and physical health!
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Sep 23, 20246 min read


Fault or Blame vs. Responsibility
Do you love little things that add up to make a big difference? Today’s topic is an excellent example of how making a simple change in...
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Sep 16, 20243 min read


Dating, Reality Testing, and You, Part 2
Learn why and how to reality test relationships, so you can avoid getting into a relationship with someone with narcissistic traits.
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Aug 5, 20247 min read


Dating Flags Are Not Just Red and Green
Dating flags aren't just red and green. Discover more about dating flags and make good decisions about whom to date and when to run!
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Jul 22, 20244 min read


The Stages of Narcissism Recovery
Are you feeling stuck trying to heal from a narcissistic relationship? Stages of narcissism change can help you break free!
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Jun 3, 20247 min read


How to Know When a Narcissistic Person Has Changed (and It Helps with Weight Management, Too!)
How do you know if change will be lasting? Understanding first-order versus second-order change can help!
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May 27, 20244 min read


JADEing, and How to Avoid It
Learn what JADEing is, and how to avoid Justifying, Arguing, Defending, or Explaining
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May 6, 20246 min read


King (or Queen) Baby
Understand what King (or Queen) Baby is and how to address it when communicating with people with narcissistic traits.
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Apr 29, 20243 min read
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