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Secure Base, or Why This Attachment Therapist Doesn’t Care About Your Attachment Style, Part II
Discover why secure base is more important than your attachment style, and learn how to develop an inner secure base!
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Nov 147 min read


Why This Attachment Therapist Doesn’t Care Whether You’re Anxiously or Avoidantly Attached
Does it really matter if you know you have an avoidant or anxious attachment style? Read on to discover why this family therapist says no--and what's really important for narcissism recovery!
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Oct 315 min read


Labels, Labeling, and Narcissism Recovery
If your person with narcissistic traits uses labels and labeling like "you're too sensitive" or "it's your fault I'm like this," this post is for you! Discover what labels are, and how to respond when someone engages in labeling!
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Oct 206 min read


Forgiveness, Self-Forgiveness, and Narcissism Recovery
Self-forgiveness can be challenging, but it's essential to a lifetime of health and happiness. Discover what self-forgiveness is (and isn't), and learn how to forgive yourself and heal from narcissistic abuse!
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Sep 296 min read


How to Identify and Address Triangulation in Narcissism Recovery
If you’re in a relationship with a person with narcissistic traits, you’ve probably experienced triangulation. Because it’s a tool that’s grounded in power and control, it’s often used by people with narcissistic traits. Learn how to identify and address triangulation, and take back your power!
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Jul 285 min read


How to Deal with Logical Fallacies in Narcissism Recovery
Are you being manipulated in your relationship with someone with narcissistic traits? Learn how to identify and address logical fallacies, so you can stay calm, clear-minded, and assertive!
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Jul 218 min read


The Bare Minimum You Need to Know About Personality in Narcissism Recovery
Things happen fast in relationships, and it can be easy to get overwhelmed quickly. This article shows you how to use a sentence or two to help you get -- and stay -- in emotional balance, no matter what your person with narcissistic traits says or does!
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Jul 145 min read


Tapping: A Simple, Easy Way to Manage Emotions, Feelings, Cravings, and Pain!
Looking for a free, easy way to manage emotions, feelings, cravings, and pain? This article on tapping can help!
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Jun 239 min read


What You Need to Know about Baiting and Narcissism Recovery
Do you know a narcissist who pushes your buttons on purpose? Here's what you need to know about baiting and narcissism recovery to make it stop!
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May 267 min read


It’s All Your Fault! – Why People with Narcissistic Traits Blame You, and What You Can Do
Do you know a narcissist who blames you for things that are outside your control? Learn why they do it, and what you can do when they blame you!
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Apr 286 min read


Yellow Flags in Dating and Narcissism Recovery
Learn what yellow flags are in dating, and how you can use this knowledge to steer clear of dating a narcissist!
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Apr 146 min read


Orange Flags in Dating and Narcissism Recovery
Learn what orange flags are in dating, and how you can use this knowledge to steer clear of dating a narcissist!
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Apr 78 min read


What To Do When a Person with Narcissistic Traits Says "I Forgot"
Do you know a narcissist who tells you "I forgot," and you find it infuriating? Learn how to deal with this common problem!
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Mar 318 min read


How Understanding Your Moving Toward Personality Helps in Narcissism Recovery
Do you find yourself drawn toward people with narcissistic traits? Discover whether your personality might be the reason why--and learn what
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Feb 107 min read


How Can Horney’s Personality Theory Help You in Narcissism Recovery?
Do you wish you had a crystal ball to predict narcissistic behavior? Learn how personality theory can help!
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Jan 2710 min read


How Labels and Self-talk Affect Narcissism Recovery and Weight Management
Are you aware of how your self-talk affects your feelings? Learn how to identify labels, and manage your weight and narcissism effectively!
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Jan 135 min read


Boundaries, Gray Rock, and Narcissism Recovery
are you good at being a gray rock? Recently we talked about displacement , which along with denial and projection , make up the three...
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Dec 23, 20249 min read


Displacement and Narcissism Recovery
Why does your person with narcissistic traits hurt your feelings? Learn what displacement is, why it happens, and how to handle it!
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Dec 9, 20249 min read


Dating and Red Flags in Narcissism Recovery, Part II
Are you dating after a relationship with a narcissistic partner? Uncover the red flags you need to be looking for as you date!
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Oct 28, 202411 min read


Red Flags in Dating and Narcissism Recovery, Part I
Ready to date, but afraid you'll miss the red flags associated with narcissism? Learn how to identify red flags, and date with confidence!
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Oct 21, 20247 min read
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